Oychhhhhhhhhhhh... If you want children - be ready, grow up, first of all... As if I needed this, having moved countries and struggling to find a flat etc. etc. When I saw this, at first I was horrified, then sad and angry at myself... Then, I took my son in my arms, kissed him and apologised for failing him... It only took a few minutes of my absence... since the last time I checked up on him... as I was in the kitchen, doing the washing up, prepping for dinner and so on... A few hours of repair followed... Be warned! Be ready!