Why are women always so catty towards young girls?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Starring_Emma, Dec 8, 2009.

  1. Starring_Emma

    Starring_Emma MDL Novice

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    Answer this seriously please. Why are women always so catty and nasty towards young girls? Why do we get the nasty glares and snippy comments when we're out laughing and having fun. Women always seem to be especially catty when girls seems to be happy and enjoying life. Is it because women hate to be reminded of their own carefree youth, their fading beauty and the wonderful feeling of being in love for the first time? Why are women this way? I don't think men are this way, which is why I like them more.
     
  2. genuine555

    genuine555 MDL Expert

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    Well, my hunch is because young girls tend to make a fool of themselves when they're having some fun.
    No heart feelings I hope :eek:

    I have a few nieces who are still in their young years, and they always act up when they're out, not considering that there are other ppl around, you know...

    Older women get reminded of the time they acted silly like that, and reminds them of how childlike they used to be and the mistakes they made when they were young and unexperienced (a thing most adult women don't want to remember). So they give the evil looks towards girls who remind them of themselves to much.

    (However, a lot of 'adult' women still act like a child in many cases, especially when it comes down to relationships. I've had a few, so I can know :D)


    My thoughts only, so I hope it's not offending...

    gen555
     
  3. JBenal

    JBenal MDL Senior Member

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    I have two daughters and I have heard many stories of how cruel girls can be toward each other at school. I don't understand that, because when I was a boy we mostly got along well together in school. Anyway, I thought maybe some women hold onto some of that cruelty when they grow up. Also, maybe they are jealous of the fun and freedom the young girls have. I think you have a good understanding of what's going on. Just enjoy yourself and don't worry about it. Maybe you'll be kind to young girls when you're an adult. :)
     
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  4. genuine555

    genuine555 MDL Expert

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    I doubt it :)
    In that regard, women are all pretty much in unison. At least the adult ones I know.
     
  5. Starring_Emma

    Starring_Emma MDL Novice

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    Are you kidding?
    Women are always looking for a way to stab another woman in the back!
     
  6. genuine555

    genuine555 MDL Expert

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    That's what I meant :)
     
  7. Pooh the Pirate

    Pooh the Pirate MDL Junior Member

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    This might help

    I think it all boils down to envy and jealousy. Based on exactly what you said
    That's just opinion :)
     
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  8. woodss

    woodss MDL Novice

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    Jealousy, genetic programming, threatened feelings, because they are secret lesbians and your hot? It could probably be any of these.
     
  9. Hackeur

    Hackeur MDL Senior Member

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    it is the essence of pure blossoming femininity that older women have lost. They are envious and forever long to regain that 'purity' that drives men crazy - hence jealousy and spitefulness against younger girls.

    as William Blake wrote once:
    To see a world in a grain of sand,
    And a heaven in a wild flower,
    Hold infinity in the palm of your hand,
    And eternity in an hour.
     
  10. kamrinjacobs

    kamrinjacobs MDL Novice

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    I have never experienced that, but my thoughts were along the lines of, when you're a younger teenager you dont realize that your being a bit of a prick, but quite a lot of the time you are and you only really realize it when your a little bit older and look back.
     
  11. Monsta Kody

    Monsta Kody MDL Junior Member

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    I have many videos in my private collection that shows they are nice and stuff maybe the old womans crossing your path are facing the monthly period if they arent fossilized to much i guess.
     
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  12. tomylee1

    tomylee1 MDL Novice

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    i fell good.
     
  13. Dolorous Edd

    Dolorous Edd MDL Expert

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    Because females of the species are crazy.
     
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  14. Gobbles

    Gobbles MDL Novice

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    Probably jealousy, youthful looks, and the fact that their husband will probably leave them for a younger woman at some point in their lives
     
  15. dareckibmw

    dareckibmw MDL Expert

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    Heheheh, I don't even try to understand women since I was 23, it remains me a joke thou ;)

    A man was walking on the beach and found a lamp.

    After a few quick rubs, the genie pops out and says that he will
    grant the man one wish.

    The man thinks for a moment, then replies "Well, I've always
    wanted to go to Hawaii, but I'm terrified of flying, and I get
    violently seasick if I even think about getting on a boat, so I
    want a bridge built that will let me drive my car to the islands.

    The genie's eyes widen in amazement. "But, jeez! Do you have any
    clue how hard that would be? Why, the water's miles deep out
    there! Imagine the size I'd have to make the pilings! Not to
    mention all the typhoons that rip through the Pacific. Nope, can't
    do it. Sorry, but you'll have to pick something else."

    So the man shrugs and says, "Well, OK. How about this? I've been
    married four times, and divorced four times. I just can't figure
    women out. I want to be able to understand women. What makes 'em
    tick, what makes 'em happy, what they fear."

    The genie nods and thinks for a moment before he responds: "So,
    should that bridge be two lanes or four?"

    :D:D:D
     
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  16. gp2k8

    gp2k8 MDL Novice

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    Sometimes the teen girls are just being oversensitive and overreacting, to older women (and men).
     
  17. Therian86

    Therian86 MDL Novice

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    Well way my mother told my sister when she asked a similar question is its the fact they are old and out of their prime. You remind them of that time so they get snippy/bitchy towards you.
     
  18. cynarch

    cynarch MDL Senior Member

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    I agree with some of your statements about women. However, they are seniors. Seniors will always be seniors. So are our parents that are our moms and dads, or our aunties and uncles, our elder (if any) brothers and sisters and so on. Whether is at home, at school, at college, in the military hehe :) or at a mall, wherever it is, it’s the same. Be just or just be respectful, polite, friendly, or cheerful to them while we are talking to or facing them in any situation.

    Although this thread of your is focusing on women, who are older than us, I’d like to add that showing good attitude things should also be applied on how we manage our behavior in front of male seniors. And the same attitude likewise (similarly but in an appropriate way) be given to our juniors as well, male or female, why not. Doing this will eventually give us a happy feelings. Their reaction towards us is the reflection of how we behave before them. However, do not expect they will give us back what we have given and always remember this. By anticipating or preparing to agree not have any expectation, we will never get hurt.

    Start to try it from within our homes. Then go further. If nothing or even irritating things happened, just let it go. And try it again.

    I may be older or may even be younger than you are, trust me, I’ve ‘been’ there and would like to share my little experience I have written above, If you don't like it, like I said, :) just let it go.

    Be happy with your life. Always be cool. Give them your smile; they’ll give theirs back to you.

    Take care. …… :)


    cynarch
     
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  19. martincrow

    martincrow MDL Novice

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    Woman always has a jealous feeling for each other, two woman of girls even they are best friend always pull each other back, and it is natural we cant change it.
     
  20. Valerie62

    Valerie62 MDL Novice

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    For sure they are just envious because their beauty is fading.. I faced this problem when I was making internship I was the only young girl and a woman who was about 35 having a son and not having a husband turned my life into disaster blaming me for the fact that all the men noticed me and some asked for a date. I refused them all because I consider that work is not the place to flirt and I just wanted to be friends and romantic affairs spoil friendship and it is more difficult to work if your ex working with you. So this woman started spreading rumors that I was with all those men..That was horrible I'm so happy this period is over for me!